well, that is the problem...

   for a site like this to allow that, it would open up a door for virus's and hackers...


     personally I don't want that... if the file is over 10 megs...  You can use msn messenger, skype, or even yahoo messenger.... as long as both parties have one of them... If not, well then, there is http://www.sendthisfile.com/  THat will work, you upload the file, and they send an email to the other person telling them it's ready... the other person then can go download it...

      you can even sign up for a free webpage through any number of sites, and can upload it to your webpage, then whoever you want can just download it from there...
 
                 So, there are a few ideas....
                                  JimK